WHAT ARE YOUR THREE LITTLE WORDS?

Everyone carries three little words that shape how they show up when the work gets hard. Ashley Rhodes-Courter helps people find theirs. A New York Times bestselling author and a practicing Licensed Clinical Social Worker, she turns lived experience into a simple, repeatable way for teams to steady themselves, reconnect to purpose, and keep moving when conditions are slow to change.

Best For: Organizations losing good people to burnout, disengagement, or quiet withdrawal, especially in demanding, mission-driven work.

Key Outcomes:

  • People who reconnect to purpose and re-engage instead of quietly checking out
  • A simple, repeatable way to steady themselves and act under pressure
  • Their own three little words to guide how they show up when it matters most
  • Stronger retention of the people you can least afford to lose

A CLINICIAN WHO HAS LIVED WHAT SHE TEACHES

Ashley spent nearly a decade in foster care as a child, moving through 14 homes, and learned out of necessity how to build steady ground where none existed. Her memoirs, Three Little Words and Three More Words, have reached millions of readers and are studied on campuses nationwide. At 26, she ran for the Florida State Senate.

Today she is the founder and CEO of the Foundation for Sustainable Families, a mental health agency serving people in high-stress, high-stakes environments, and a practicing Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) who is board-certified in telemental health. She is also a foster and adoptive parent.

That makes her rare among engagement speakers. She does not just describe disengagement and burnout from the outside. She understands and treats them as a clinician, which means her tools are grounded in how people actually respond under stress.


THE WORDS YOU CHOOSE CHANGE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT

This is not just a powerful story. It is a message teams can act on.

Drawing on her clinical training, Ashley gives audiences a simple, repeatable way to steady themselves, focus on what they can control, and take the next real step, even when conditions are slow to change. Then she makes it personal, challenging each person to name the three little words that will guide how they show up when the work gets hard.

Three words can anchor a career. Three words can steady a team. Three words can change what happens next. Her message resonates across healthcare, education, government, corporate, and association audiences, anywhere people need to stay steady and keep moving through change.


SIGNATURE KEYNOTE: THREE LITTLE WORDS

Find the Three Words That Guide How You Show Up

This keynote is not about hearing a story. It is about the words you choose when everything around you is uncertain. Drawing on her lived experience and her work as a clinician, Ashley moves audiences past inspiration and into ownership, and challenges each person to leave with three little words of their own to act on.

  • Recognize how disengagement creeps in, and how to reverse it
  • Steady themselves and act, even when conditions do not improve
  • Reconnect to purpose and ownership in demanding work
  • Take a simple, repeatable method back to their teams
  • Walk away with three words of their own to act on

IMPACT BEYOND THE STAGE

Ashley does not just inspire in the moment. She leaves people with something that lasts.

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, mental health agency founder, and L’Oreal Paris Woman of Worth honoree, she pairs real clinical insight with unforgettable storytelling. She has spoken everywhere from intimate trainings to a sold-out arena of more than 20,000.

Her delivery is engaging, thoughtful, warm, and human. She balances a powerful story with practical takeaways teams can put to work right away.

Testimonials

Thank you for being a part of our event this year.  Your authenticity as a person and inspiring story were truly amazing to witness.  You fully resonated with our audience, kept them engaged and helped make our event a tremendous success.  Thanks for beings a true change agent and setting an example for others to help people who need us in their next chapters.

Good Days

I was hoping you could pass this email of appreciation on to Ashley. I wanted to thank her again for speaking at our Summit last week. Her presentation was so inspiring, and that hour flew by! The audience soaked it all in and truly hung on every word. It was the perfect way to end an incredible event. We hope to work together again in the future.

– Dave Thomas Foundation

Ashley Rhodes-Courter demonstrated our mission beautifully on stage which touched many of our attendees. Some of which were in tears listening to her story. At the same time she was funny and connected in a way that was a blessing. She took time to speak and take photos after the event with all that wanted to which was very special for our guests.

– Women Helping Women Fund Tri-Cities

Ashley had us from “hello.” Her infectious personality, engaging delivery and true compassion were perfect for our celebration of 20 successful years in child welfare. Over the course of her presentation she had 150 guests alternating between laughter and tears. And she seamlessly tied her journey to Neighbor To Family’s mission of keeping siblings together. She was generous with her time and spirit, remaining behind to chat with guests and listen to one of our many success stories as told by two siblings and what became their “forever family.” I can’t think of a better person to help us mark a milestone in our agency’s history.

– Neighbor To Family

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